Emotional spending during the pandemic

The pandemic is fuelling emotional spending. How do we recognise it and how do we address it. To discuss this Pat was joined on the show by Dr. Malie Coyne, Clinical Psychologist and NUIG Lecturer and author of ‘Love in Love Out’.

 

 

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Psychopaths V’s Sociopaths – RTE Today Show

Learning more about the characteristics of psychopaths versus sociopaths was seriously fascinating research for this week's instalment of the RTE Today show.

Both falling under the umbrella of Antisocial Personality Disorder, I described sociopathy as a 'teenage' form of psychopathy in that sociopaths tend to be nervous and easily agitated often living on the fringes of society. A psychopath is much more cold and calculating, often very charismatic and occupying high powered jobs.

The origins of each are food for thought in terms of reduced connections between the prefrontal cortex (empathy and guilt) and the amygdala (fear and anxiety). We also talked about the horrific crimes committed by Adolf Hitler and Ted Bundy.

Learning more about the characteristics of psychopaths versus sociopaths was seriously fascinating research for this...

Posted by Dr. Malie Coyne on Wednesday, February 28, 2018

Narcissism – RTE Today Show

Making light of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder misses out on the seriousness of its origins. The combination of grandiose self-importance, hunger for attention, feelings of worthlessness and lack of empathy stem from a deep childhood wound.

With very inconsistent or unresponsive parenting, a child does not develop a secure sense of self and fails to form strong and enduring adult relationships. The strong feelings projected onto others and the damage caused are immeasurable. For more here is my segment from the RTE Today Show with the lovely Maura and Daithi!

RTE Today Show - Narcissism

Making light of Narcissism and Narcissistic Personality Disorder misses out on the seriousness of its origins. The combination of grandiose self-importance, hunger for attention, feelings of worthlessness and lack of empathy stem from a deep childhood wound. With very inconsistent or unresponsive parenting, a child does not develop a secure sense of self and fails to form strong and enduring adult relationships. The strong feelings projected onto others and the damage caused are immeasurable. For more here is my segment from the RTE Today Show with the lovely Maura and Daithi!

Posted by Dr. Malie Coyne on Tuesday, February 13, 2018

What can we do about ‘negativity bias’? – the science behind being sound

Published: The Irish Times
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

Why does negativity stick so damn much? You do something you’re happy with, everyone says you did a great job, but it’s that one comment that’s less than positive (“Why didn’t you do it this way?”) which keeps replaying itself over and over in your mind and taints your whole perception of it.

Turns out there’s a very good evolutionary reason for this called the “negativity bias”, which means that negative experiences weigh more heavily on our brains than others. Since the days of the caveman, we’ve evolved to be fearful and heavily attuned to the strong possibility of a threat to sustain our survival, whilst totally underestimating our resources to deal with them. Bloody typical! Left unchecked, the negativity bias can become a serious hindrance to emotional wellbeing and positive mental health, as negative thinking is often synonymous with anxiety and depression.

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For every troll or road rager there are countless more ‘sounders’

Published: The Irish Times
Author: Tanya Sweeney
Expert Opinion: Dr. Malie Coyne

“Is it just me, or have people become a bit more combative with each other than before? Perhaps it’s the affect of call-out culture on social media, where minor infractions and differences of opinion get amplified into full-blown spats. It could be that we’ve become apathetic towards others in a world brimful of hate, violence and tragedy. Or maybe it’s just that we’re a little more protective of, what little personal physical space we have in the world. Either way, it’s made for a tense and occasionally defensive atmosphere, both online and off.”

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The Science of Sound

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

In the context of an alarming increase in mental ill health in Ireland and urgency around how we are going to tackle the real pain faced by many, we need to focus our energies on “being sound” and promoting overall wellbeing, which is at the core of positive mental health.

Why does negativity stick so damn much? There is a very good evolutionary reason for this called the “negativity bias”, which refers to the way in which negative experiences weigh more heavily on the brain than others. We’ve evolved to be fearful and heavily attuned to the strong possibility of a threat in order to sustain our survival, whilst underestimating our resources to deal with them. Left unchecked, the negativity bias can become a serious impediment to good mental health, as it has been found to be synonymous with anxiety and depression.

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