How to help your child deal with bullying

Published: RTE Brainstorm
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

No matter how much you try to protect your child, they will cross paths with someone who bullies. Humans are a social species with an evolutionary drive towards finding their positions within a pecking order which can often involve conflict, be it in a playground, online or at the office.

As a clinician encountering concerned parents, raising awareness about how bullying can affect children is hugely important, especially given how pervasive and devastating it can be. It affects the child’s sense of belonging which is one of the most basic human needs. Who doesn’t want to belong?

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Interview with Stella O’Malley – Author “Cotton Wool Kids” & “Bully-Proof Kids”

Interview with psychotherapist and author Stella O’Malley about her rebellious nature growing up, her need for freedom, and how her sensitivities prompted her to become psychotherapist. She shares her difficult transition into motherhood and what prompted her to write her critically acclaimed book “Cotton Wool Kids” and her sequel on Bullying “Bully-Proof Kids”.

How to empower children against bullying and strengthen emotional resilience

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

I remember looking into the mirror at my reflection next to her in the school toilets. She was small, thin-built, and pretty. Somebody all the kids hung around with. Standing next to her, I felt so big by comparison, overweight and spotty, definitely not pretty and definitely not popular. It didn’t help that I felt vulnerable at the time, lacking in self-belief, in “no man’s land”. I was 9 and we had moved from another country (another continent!). I felt like a fish out of water, a big one at that…

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What to do if your child is being bullied – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show hosted by Gavin Grace

Play drives children's development. Prioritizing "play time" with your child holds huge benefits for them in terms of them learning about their feelings, and improving their social, emotional, motor and brain development. I also discuss the importance of unstructured time and "letting your kids' brains turn to mush" given our modern busy lives, which will help them to really process all they have learnt...