Interview with Katherine Lynch

Interview with comedian, actress and singer Katherine Lynch about how growing up in a small community “prepared the very soul of her for life”, her deep pride in her family tie to her grand uncle poet Patrick Kavanagh, her thoughts on melancholy and living in the fear of perfection, and the powerful meaning behind her beautiful song “Settling Dust”.

Dr. Malie Coyne Irish Clinical Psychologist

Happiness and Wellbeing – Interview with JJ Clark – Dublin City FM

Malie Coyne - Dublin City FM

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Me being interviewed by Dublin City FM radio presenter JJ Clarke on his “Healthy Living” show on 30th May 2016.

I share how happiness and wellbeing needs to be worked at on a daily basis to keep you well. This includes identifying the things you need to do to keep yourself well, from the basics of looking after your body and mind, to making the most out of your daily routine, to coping through tougher times. I discuss the importance of engaging in nourishing as opposed to depleting activities, and the crucial relationship between mood and daily activities. I also talk about the importance of identifying and honouring your co

Exam Stress Management – 2FM – Eoghan McDermott Show

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Here is a podcast of my radio interview with the comical Stephen Byrne on the 2FM Eoghan McDermott show, which links with the A Lust for Life Exam Stress Management course. I discuss the practical measures you can take to mind your body and mind during the marathon that is the exams.

Similar to professional athletes, I share how you can improve your performance by visualising yourself being calm and confident during an exam, and feeling excited to RISE UP to the challenge ahead. I give your parents advice on trying to remain calm, on acknowledging your mixed feelings and most of all giving you lots of encouragement during this tough time. May the force be with you!

 

 

A Lust for Life Exam Stress Management Course Week 1: “Mastering the game of exams”

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

Exams are part of the “game” of life   

Exams are an unfortunate reality of life. An unnecessary evil some might say or a necessary rite of passage towards an important goal. It depends on how you look at it. The weeks before exam-time can be a really stressful time, which is totally understandable given the amount of pressure you may be experiencing. You are not alone in how you feel.

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Stress Management – Today FM – Anton Savage – Bressie

 
 
With Bressie on the Anton Savage show on Today FM on 20th April 2016 – discussing A Lust for Life’s new 5 week stress management course, designed for Junior Cert and Leaving Cert students.

The weeks before exam-time can be a really stressful time, which is totally understandable given the amount of pressure you may be experiencing. You are not alone in how you feel. We discuss week 1 of my stress management course for students and parents. You may worry you haven’t studied enough, or that you won’t live up to people’s expectations. It doesn’t help that everyone talks about exams non-stop…

Why every man needs a bromance in his life

Published: Irish Independent
Author: John Brennan
Expert Opinion – Dr. Malie Coyne

“From an evolutionary perspective, where the caveman had to provide, and historically, where men were expected to defend during war times, boys and men were taught to be strong rather than be emotionally open or vulnerable,” “When boys are told not to cry and to ‘stay strong’, they can lose touch with their feelings..”

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How to empower children against bullying and strengthen emotional resilience

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

I remember looking into the mirror at my reflection next to her in the school toilets. She was small, thin-built, and pretty. Somebody all the kids hung around with. Standing next to her, I felt so big by comparison, overweight and spotty, definitely not pretty and definitely not popular. It didn’t help that I felt vulnerable at the time, lacking in self-belief, in “no man’s land”. I was 9 and we had moved from another country (another continent!). I felt like a fish out of water, a big one at that…

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Infant mental health: A critical window of opportunity for future wellbeing and mental health

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

“Mental health issues are the great epidemic of this generation” were the impassioned words of musician and mental health campaigner Niall Breslin (Bressie) as he addressed the Oireachtas Joint Committee on Health and Children last week. “Agonising suicide rates, disturbingly high anxiety and depression rates, self-harm, eating disorders, obsessive compulsive disorder… young people are being exposed to too much… we simply cannot ignore this anymore”..

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Why parental self-care is essential for children’s emotional wellbeing

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

Parenting is a complete rollercoaster ride from conception to forever. Nothing can match up to creating a human being and witnessing their emerging personalities as they develop into proper little people learning about the world for the first time. Nothing compares to their little arms hugging you tightly for dear life.

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Baby Blues vs. Postnatal Depression: How to spot the difference and 10 things that will help

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

I still have visions of me wheeling my trolley around the postnatal ward, looking in at my most precious baby girl, tears of joy and sadness streaming down my face. What was wrong with me? Why couldn’t I hold it together? The most amazing thing had just happened to me. The very thing I had been hoping for all of my life, to become a mother, and I just felt so overwhelmed, not in control of my emotions and petrified of the massive responsibility that lay ahead.

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How to navigate a family Christmas – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show hosted by Gavin Grace.

Christmas is meant to be happy families right?! It is such special time for many of us but can also come with its challenges, not least noisy, tired and sugar coated kids in confined spaces! Gavin as usual tries to play "Devil's Advocate", whilst I refer to him as "Scrooge" and we agree on "The Grinch"! A bit of banter for our last 2015 broadcast. Wishing you all a very Happy Christmas and all my best for 2016!

Validation of children’s feelings promotes positive mental health

Published: alustforlife.com
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

Dignity was the theme of this year’s World Mental Health Day on 10th October 2015. Dignity is defined as “the quality of being worthy of esteem or respect”. FOR ME DIGNITY MEANS acknowledgement and validation of feelings, no matter how difficult or intense they may be, and no matter what age the person is. Without validation, dignity simply cannot thrive.

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What to do if your child is being bullied – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show hosted by Gavin Grace

Play drives children's development. Prioritizing "play time" with your child holds huge benefits for them in terms of them learning about their feelings, and improving their social, emotional, motor and brain development. I also discuss the importance of unstructured time and "letting your kids' brains turn to mush" given our modern busy lives, which will help them to really process all they have learnt...

The importance of play – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show

Play drives children's development. Prioritizing "play time" with your child holds huge benefits for them in terms of them learning about their feelings, and improving their social, emotional, motor and brain development. I also discuss the importance of unstructured time and "letting your kids' brains turn to mush" given our modern busy lives, which will help them to really process all they have learnt...

The importance of play in child Development – Clare FM

How to help children manage their emotions – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show hosted by Gavin Grace

For me there is nothing more validating than someone taking the time to really listen and to acknowledge my feelings. As a parent you have the power to improve your children's emotional health by doing just that, which was the topic for my parenting slot on Clare FM this week.

Managing children’s behaviour – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show hosted by Gavin Grace

Managing children's behaviour is a perfect opportunity to help your children with their feelings and here's why ... Also my views on positive parenting and the "naughty" step, star charts and how to stop your kids fighting over that Xbox!!!

Building children’s self esteem – Clare FM

Clare FM’s Morning Focus radio show hosted by Gavin Grace

Who influences your child's self-esteem and what practical steps can you take to help as a parent? Also my answers relating to a withdrawn little boy who has just started school, a girl who is too scared to sleep in her own room, and tips on encouraging a not very talkative 4 year old....

Pre-school plan is a leap into unknown if issues unresolved

Published: Irish Independent
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

'No way am I holding my child back from starting school!" was a recent response from a parent when I suggested that perhaps her child, who had just turned four, could benefit from another year in pre-school before starting primary school, due to the child's young age and speech difficulties.

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Responding to self-harming teenagers with calm and care

Published: Irish Independent
Author: Dr. Malie Coyne

I was heartened to read Stella O'Malley's contribution, "Self-harm: how to hear your troubled teen's cry for help" (Irish Independent, September 11). As a clinical child psychologist working with children and families, it is an issue that is far more prevalent than one would imagine and which many parents understandably find very worrying and difficult to understand.

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